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Topic: Is a cis man who is exclusively attracted to trans men a fetishist by default (de facto)?
CG (8-8-20): This is a particular offensive issue for me, a cis man. I have been kicked out of groups or social media dating sites because I post that I want to find a trans man as my partner. The moderators have told me I am fetishizing trans men and won't allow a post specifically asking for a reply from a transgender man. Really? Wanting to date a transgender man is fetishizing him? I wonder what their definition of "fetishist" is? To recognize one is attracted to transgender men and want to start a relationship with a guy is no more fetishizing him than a gay cis man posting an ad for a bottom, or a top, or for a slender guy or a bear or... No one would raise any questions of legitimacy for those post, why attack a cis man that wants to date a trans man? I don't get it.
JR (8-11-20):
Aren't we all fetishist in some way if that is the case? I love it when cisguys want me because I am FTM - bring em on :) It beats the hell out of explaining myself to every guy who hits on me.
Topic: How do cis men or trans men find one another?
Topic: What is your favorite sexual position for fucking and why?
Topic: Best website for transgender support is...?
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